ABC in KMC: Kindergraves

A tiny flag and flower are placed on top of each kindergrave during the annual ceremony.
Photo by Senior Airman Isaac Olivera

From 1952 to 1971 American infants, born at Landstuhl Regional Medical Center or at German hospitals nearby, who passed away at birth or shortly after, were laid to rest at the main cemetery in Kaiserslautern (Waldfriedhof) adjacent to U.S. Army Daenner Kaserne. At that time, many military members did not have the capability or funds to send the bodies to the United States.

Four hundred fifty-two babies were buried at the cemetery and members of the German-American and International Women’s Club knew of the graves and maintained them early on, as the military families had moved on to other duty locations.

In the 1980’s, the cemetery management contacted the ladies and informed them that the initial lease was expiring, and the remains of the babies would be removed, in accordance with local custom, to make room for cemetery expansion.

The women’s club was determined to save the children’s graves from extinction and appealed to the local Air Force base legal office for help, however they determined the military could not do anything. The club then appealed to the U.S. State Department. They too determined that they had no authority in the matter.

After the German authorities realized the steadfast position of the women’s club, the cemetery management agreed to allow a private organization directly affiliated with the military to assume responsibility for the gravesites. The Ramstein Area Chiefs’ Group (US Air Force E-9’s) assumed this role.  The cemetery management agreed to move the gravesites to a new area in the heart of the cemetery and drafted a new lease. The Ramstein Area Chiefs’ Group now serves as the entrusted agent for the lease and the US Army Command Sergeants Major Association also supports the activities.

Kaiserslautern Kindergraves Memorial Foundation

The Kaiserslautern Kindergraves Memorial Foundation, founded in 1986, preserves the memorial site, organizes annual remembrance ceremonies for the children, and serves as a point of contact for family inquiries. Representatives of the Ramstein Area Chiefs’ Group and the German‑American Club act as the foundation’s co‑chairs. Each year, students from BurgGymnasium in Kaiserslautern assist with site upkeep, cleaning and decorating the grave markers ahead of the ceremony.

Each spring, after Mother’s Day, the KKMF, together with the Kaiserslautern Military Community and city officials, sponsors a memorial ceremony. Floral wreaths are laid at the main monument and a candle‑lighting honors the children. A flower and an American flag are placed at each grave marker, and the procession to the gravesite is led by the Air Force Jr. ROTC Color Guard.

The KKMF receives no funding from the US government. The upkeep of the Kindergraves is possible through the generous monetary donations of the local community. The Ramstein Area Chiefs’ Group designate organizes volunteers to accomplish year-round maintenance (grass cutting, edging, trimming and stone cleaning).

On occasion, parents or siblings of the children come back to honor their deceased sons or daughters, sisters or brothers, and take part in the ceremonies. For a further article visit: https://www.dvidshub.net/news/420783/american-kindergraves-more-than-symbol-us-german-partnership

A memorial service will take place on Saturday, May 16 at 10 a.m. at Daenner Chapel, which will be followed by a wreath laying and candle lighting ceremony with leading U.S. Air Force, Army and local representatives. A flower and a tiny flag are placed on every grave, and anyone interested is welcome to join the observation in honor of the children or assist in the upkeep of the graves.